Random Thingy on Sex and Luv and Lust
“It was less acceptable to love, to ache for eternal companionship, than it was to bounce and slurp and gasp behind the five courts. Love was Adrian’s guilty secret, sex his public pride.”
–Stephen Fry ‘the Liar’
For many times I talked with D, how I will become a middle-aged woman with no kids no lovers just safe sex with whom I find sexually attractive and career and Leica camera and entertaining myself; and he said that’s his plan too. Funny we think so similarly.
And yet, I found the debate on gay or not centering on sexual behavior a lot– those 满脑肥肠的 people, whether advocate or oppose gay rights, is absurd 2 me– cuz sex shan’t be part of the reasoning: What two dudes/gals do is no different from what a dude and a gal do.
Things not to be ashamed of (in spite of our suicidal attempt to convince ourselves otherwise):
1: to possess a rectum, a urethra, and a bladder and all that pertain thereto;
2: to cry;
3: to fart;
4: to find anything or anyone of any gender, age or species sexually attractive;
5: to find anything or anyone of any gender, age or species sexually unattractive;
6: to insert sth into one’s mouth, anus or vagina just for the pleasure;
7: to masturbate as often as one wishes; or not;
8: to swear;
9: to be filled with sexual desires that involve objects, articles or parts of the body irrelevant to procreation;
10: to be sexually unattractive;
11: to love;
12: to ingest legal/illegal drugs to one’s wishes;
13: to smell of oneself and one’s juices;
14: to pick one’s nose;
